Sex is meant to drive away stress from your life, right? But, what if the very idea of sex becomes stressful to you?
Because you worry about certain things before lovemaking! Of course, you're not alone. Experts say women can share some common stress points that stop them from enjoying great sex. Here are some of the biggest fears for women:
'I don't look pretty without clothes'
A lot of women tend to feel insecure about their body image, according to counsellors. Feeling uncomfortable about one's own body or fearing that their partners may not appreciate what they see is a common worry for women. Needless to say, unfounded fears can affect their sex life to a great extent.
Various studies show that around seventy per cent women do not get orgasm from intercourse. In fact, they may orgasm more from clitoris stimulation. So, don't stress if penetrative sex doesn't make your climax. Instead let your partner devise other ways of pleasuring you.
'I'm not creative enough'
That's another source of performance worry. You fear that you lack imagination or you don't have enough creative ideas to make sex enjoyable for your partner and yourself. Therefore, you tend to think that you are really bad at sex.